Choose what matters. Choose what feels right and true from the inside. Trust yourself. The soul of you. Not the hurried and busy you. Trust what rises from the depth of you. Take a moment to recognize it. Practice trusting that.

Make the choice not just about what you don’t want, but what you do want. And most importantly, choose who and how you want to be. From the depth of you.

Not choices from the surface. The surface wants everything to be easy. Not too much effort. Selfish. Wanting only what is comfortable.  The surface can be seductive like that. It masquerades as self-care. But the surface is often short-sighted. Check in below the surface.  Check in a little deeper. What is this really about for me?

Is it…

  • happiness or joy
  • closure or peace
  • easy or meaningful
  • perfection or well-being
  • pleasing others or true to self
  • winning or worthy

Choose what really matters. Your soul knows the answer.

Trusting
Paula